Someone in a relationship is going to undergo an experience that is going to change them. Now, before this happens, the people talk about the change.
What kinds of things do we know will change us? Military service? Brain surgery? Marriage?
What kinds of relationships do people have where a dramatic change will effect all parties? Familial relationships? Friendships? Romance?
I know what I do in these conversations. I search for what won't change. I reach for solid points to anchor myself to. Sometimes I imagine the worst and try to think how I'll survive. But mostly, I hope, and I pray, and I trust.
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